This is a brick wall. Its in your way. You can climb over it or tunnel underneath it or kick it down or try to walk around it. Or you can sit down on the ground in front of it and weep bitter life-is-not-fair brick wall hating tears.
But let’s be honest, when you cry, your mascara runs and so does your nose and your eyes get red and puffy. And when your done, that brick wall will still be in your way.