Swarmers run the risk of skittering like water bugs on the surface of life. By being quickly and constantly connected, they can avoid deep contact in time-consuming and meaningful ways… You’re flitting from one place to another. You’re more likely to pursue superficial engagements rather than deep pursuits. It contributes to this certain MTV approach to life where you engage in something for a few minutes and then there’s a commercial… You have to get a grip on reality. Unless you know what is real-what is a real friendship and relationship-neither can have an effect on you.