I come from a family of communist nudists. I was allowed to do or not do what I liked. My parents were not interested in whether I went to school or got drunk on white wine.
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Far be it from me to force anyone into either chess or dressage, but if you choose to do so yourself
When I was younger, I was fascinated by david bowie, for example. He had created an entire myth around himself.