One is a child when one has a child. No one says, ‘You will never be the same again.’ Which is the truth! And we’re all supposed to be happy all the time. What is that about?
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And of course he was a man living in a very rich culture with a wealthy family who was able to afford health care.
When husbands and fathers leave, their wives and daughters tend to value themselves less as a result.