Those who can’t do, teach. And, as Woody Allen says, those who can’t teach, teach gym. And, as I say, those who can’t teach gym become experts. That’s who we look to for answers these days-the people telling you how to make your marriage work. Men telling women how to raise their self-esteem. The only thing that cures everything is talking to people who have the same problem you do. The rest is just a moneymaking bullshit scheme that some asshole is getting rich on.