The best day of your life is the one on which you decide your life is your own. No apologies or excuses. No one to lean on, rely on, or blame. The gift is yours - it is an amazing journey - and you alone are responsible for the quality of it. This is the day your life really begins.
Being strong is to love someone in silent, to radiate happiness when we are unhappy, to forgive someone who does not deserve forgiveness, to stay calm in moments of despair, to show joy when we don't feel it, to smile when you want to cry, to make someone happy when our own heart is broken, to be silent when we feel like screaming our anguish, to comfort when we need to be comforted, to have faith when sometimes we no longer believe.
Know what you can and want to do in life. Set goals for yourself and work hard to achieve them. Strive to have fun every day. Use your creativity as a means of expressing your feelings. Be sensitive in viewing the world. Develop a sense of confidence. Be honest with yourself and with others. Follow your heart and adhere to your own truths. Know that the more you give the more you will receive. Believe in yourself and your dreams will come true.
We are always evolving into new better versions of ourselves. The comforting part is that we are never finished. The idea of being unfinished is nice, for it always leaves room for improvement, for trying new things, making new friends and getting wiser. Being unfinished means we can cry today, and next week or next year we wont cry for the same thing because we are forever changing, evolving. Becoming better versions of ourselves.
I choose to live by choice, not by chance; to make changes, not excuses; to be motivated, not manipulated; to be useful, not used; to excel, not to compete. I choose self-esteem, not self-pity. I choose to listen to my inner voice, not the random opinion of others. I choose to be me.
To be truly happy one must accept the circumstances which they live in. You must understand that this is what's been so graciously given to you, things that you could lose in but the blink of an eye. You must accept what you have, what you do not have and realize that everything is so precious. Learn to share the things others lack. Like love, hope, words of strength. To be happy one must do everything they can to make sure the people around them are happy as well. To be happy you must live, and to truly live you... Read more »