Be assertive enough so that when someone enters your life that treats you negatively, you can stand up for yourself and have the strength to let them go. You can learn that it is okay to say no to anyone who is not willing to treat you with the love and respect you not only want, but also deserve. Have the courage to walk away from anything that does not serve you well. Search for your highest good.
After 21 years of marriage, my wife wanted me to take another woman out to dinner and a movie. She said, “I love you, but I know this other woman loves you and would love to spend some time with you.” The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit was my MOTHER, who has been a widow for 19 years, but the demands of my work and my three children had made it possible to visit her only occasionally. That night I called to invite her to go out for dinner and a movie. “What’s wrong, are you... Read more »
Life is for having fun. Never waste it on some one who doesn't want their friends to know they're in love with you. Don't give that person the rest of your tears or a month or a year of your life when he/she treats you badly and doesn't mind to make you cry. Every person deserves some one who wants to brag about them. Every person deserves some one who makes them smile and laugh at their worst moments. we all deserve at least that. We all deserve to be loved.
Sometimes, the truth may be that you do deserve better... you just haven’t realized it yet. I don’t mean that you deserve better because you’re a better person than someone else or even that they aren’t the right person for you. What I mean is people will only treat you as good as you treat yourself. If you don’t truly love yourself others will find it difficult to love you too. Focus on finding it within yourself to accept the real you and embrace your truth. With love comes respect and once you respect yourself, you will find that you... Read more »
You need to know; Everyone deserves love without terms and conditions. Everyone has a right to live their life the way they want. Everyone has the right to be happy without feeling guilty. No one deserves abuse. No one is not good enough for healthy love. No one has the right to hurt anyone. Everyone can be happy. Everyone feels completely alone and lost sometimes. It is okay to be yourself. It’s okay to do what you want to do. It’s okay to be happy with yourself, your life. It’s okay to say no. You need to be honest, with... Read more »