The sad truth is, there are some people who will only be there for you as long as you have something they need. When you no longer serve a purpose to them, they will leave. The good news is, if you tough it out, with time and experience, you’ll eventually weed these people out of your life and be left with some great friends you can always count on. Those are your "true" friends!
If someone doesn't want to be a part of your life, why beg them to stay? Once you allow someone to walk all over you eventually they are going to start stomping on you, because that's what you've allowed. Don't allow someone to take advantage of you. If they don't see the good in your heart and no longer want to keep you around than allow yourself to let them go. You shouldn't have to ask someone to be in your life because someone who wants to be will be. Be the bigger person and never allow your last words... Read more »
There was a girl and a boy where both are in deep love and from the very beginning, the girl's family objected strongly on her dating this guy. Saying that it has got to do with family background & that the girl will have to suffer for the rest of her life if she were to be with him. Due to family's pressure, the couple quarrel very often. Though the girl love the guy deeply, but she always ask him: "How deep is your love for me?" As the guy is not good with his words, this often causes the... Read more »
Pencil: I'm sorry... Eraser: For what ?? You didn't do anything wrong.. Pencil: I'm sorry, you get hurt because of me...Whenever I made a mistake, you're always there to erase it, but as you make my mistakes vanish, you lose a part of yourself and get smaller and smaller each time. Eraser: That's true, but I don't really mind, You see, I was made to do this, I was made to help you whenever you do something wrong, even though one day I know I'll be gone... I'm actually happy with my job... So please, stop worrying I hate seeing... Read more »
No one will love you how you want to be loved, they’ll love you in the only ways they know how. Life throws everyone down drastically different paths so how can we expect everyone to love in the same way? The person you’ll spend your lifetime with will love you in their way and you’ll love in yours, and maybe you’ll meet in the middle and it’ll last. None of us know what we’re doing, you see, we’re just fumbling for matches in the dark. If you’re lucky, you might eventually just strike the right one.
There is always one person you love who becomes that definition. It usually happens retrospectively, but it happens eventually. This is the person who unknowingly sets the template for what you will always love about other people, even if some of these lovable qualities are self-destructive and unreasonable. The person who defines your understanding of love is not inherently different than anyone else; they're often just the person you happen to meet the first time you really, really want to love someone. But that person still wins. They win, and you lose, Because for the rest of your life, they... Read more »
As we grow up we learn that the people that weren’t supposed to ever let us down, probably will. You’ll have your heart broken and you’ll break others hearts. You’ll blame a new love for the things an old love did. You’ll fight with your best friend, you’ll cry because time is running away, and eventually you’ll lose someone you love unconditionally. So take too many pictures, laugh out too much, forgive quickly, love like you’ve never been hurt and live like theirs no tomorrow. Because every minute you spend angry or upset, is sixty seconds of happiness lost, which... Read more »
Our life is made up of time; our days are measured in hours, our pay measured by those hours, our knowledge is measured by years. We grab a few quick minutes in our busy day to have a coffee break. We rush back to our desks, we watch the clock, we live by appointments. And yet your time eventually runs out and you wonder in your heart of hearts if those seconds, minutes, hours, days, weeks, months, years and decades were being spent the best way they possibly could. In other words, if you could change anything, would you?
Although we may want things to happen faster, or now, or even yesterday, sometimes things take more time to unfold, but will do so in their own time, at their own pace, eventually. Trying to force them to happen sooner will only lead to frustration. Once you’ve done all you can do, know when to practice patience.