Accept the children the way we accept trees — with gratitude, because they are a blessing — but do not have expectations or desires. You don’t expect trees to change, you love them as they are.
Love is a gift to give, and the pleasure is in the giving. There’s nothing to be afraid of if you don’t expect anything in return. To be able to care is a gift meant to be shared. Although the ones you care about don't really give a damn, just care and love them the way you always do for sometimes what mean people need is a little bit of affection.
No one will love you how you want to be loved, they’ll love you in the only ways they know how. Life throws everyone down drastically different paths so how can we expect everyone to love in the same way? The person you’ll spend your lifetime with will love you in their way and you’ll love in yours, and maybe you’ll meet in the middle and it’ll last. None of us know what we’re doing, you see, we’re just fumbling for matches in the dark. If you’re lucky, you might eventually just strike the right one.
Sometimes, the truth may be that you do deserve better... you just haven’t realized it yet. I don’t mean that you deserve better because you’re a better person than someone else or even that they aren’t the right person for you. What I mean is people will only treat you as good as you treat yourself. If you don’t truly love yourself others will find it difficult to love you too. Focus on finding it within yourself to accept the real you and embrace your truth. With love comes respect and once you respect yourself, you will find that you... Read more »
There once was a farmer who discovered that he had lost his watch in the barn. It was no ordinary watch because it had sentimental value for him. After searching high and low among the hay for a long while; he gave up and enlisted the help of a group of children playing outside the barn. He promised them that the person who found it would be rewarded. Hearing this, the children hurried inside the barn, went through and around the entire stack of hay but still could not find the watch. Just when the farmer was about to give... Read more »
Why Complicate Life ? ... Missing somebody?... Call them Wanna meet up?... Invite them Wanna be understood?... Explain Have questions?... Ask them Don’t like something?... Say it Like something?... State it Want something?... Ask for it Love someone ?... Tell them Nobody will know what's going in your mind. It's better to express rather than to expect. You already have the NO, take the risk of getting the yes. We just have one life, keep it simple!
Don't sit on your butt and expect things to magically work your way. Get out there and make them work. Don't be quietly wishing and waiting for all your wildest dreams to come true, get out there and make them a reality. Because you can't get something out of nothing. You can't expect everything to fall into place without having to put some sort of effort into it. So get up. Live. And don't you ever give up.