If you ever find yourself wanting something or someone very much but in your heart you know, is all wrong for you. You know deep inside, it would compromise your integrity or your self. It would be a choice that would hurt you in the long run. Be courageous and say no. Be brave and walk away. Be good to yourself and know that you deserve goodness in your life and making good decisions will help you achieve this.
The sad truth is, there are some people who will only be there for you as long as you have something they need. When you no longer serve a purpose to them, they will leave. The good news is, if you tough it out, with time and experience, you’ll eventually weed these people out of your life and be left with some great friends you can always count on. Those are your "true" friends!
When I was a kid, my Mom liked to cook food and every now & then I remember she used to cook for us. One night in particular when she had made dinner after a long hard day at work, Mom placed a plate of bread jam and extremely burned toast in front of my dad. I was waiting to see if anyone noticed the burnt toast. But Dad just ate his toast and asked me how was my day at school. I don't remember what I told him that night, but I do remember I heard Mom apologizing to... Read more »
One young academically excellent person went to apply for a managerial position in a big company. He passed the first interview, the director did the last interview, made the last decision. The director discovered from the CV that the youth’s academic achievements were excellent all the way, from the secondary school until the postgraduate research, Never had a year when he did not score. The director asked, “Did you obtain any scholarships in school?” The youth answered “none”. The director asked, “Was it your father who paid for your school fees?” The youth answered, “My father passed away when I... Read more »