When [our secrets] are sad and hurtful secrets, like my father’s death, we can in a way honor the hurt by letting ourselves feel it as we never let ourselves feel it before, and then, having felt it, by laying it aside; we can start to take care of ourselves the way we take care of people we love.
![When [our secrets] are sad and hurtful secrets, like my father’s death, Image](https://www.idlehearts.com/images/when-our-secrets-are-sad-and-hurtful-secrets-like-my-fathers-death.jpg?x85372 "When [our secrets] are sad and hurtful secrets, like my father’s death,")
